What Women
Want
When asked about what attracts them to men on a nudist beach,
women seem to keep two sets of books. One is for show, the other
for their personal use. There's a big asexual pitch on most
nudist sites, which is fine, but we think it covers just half of
the story. Your personal experience on a nudist beach
occurs in your brain, which is hopefully able to control any
outward evidence of your thoughts. Your outward participation
and behavior is of course what you make public. We thought women
had it lucky on that score. Apparently we were wrong.
"Oh, no, I do get some arousal from the visual clues
around me on a nudist beach. I've noticed other women do
too," said one female participant at the Tulum workshop.
Well, what do you mean? "There's some swelling. You know,
you see the engorgement but it's more subtle than a man's
erection." Oh that. Pink.
So, what gets you that way?
The word "packaging" was adopted and applied to
what a man carries around with him on a nudist beach.
Regrettably, it's more an object of befuddlement than
appreciation. "They are so different. They're like
snowflakes."
So what is it about the packaging that they like? Symmetrical
arrangement was what things narrowed down to. To
paraphrase: "A nice sack, not too long, not shrunken
[remember the Seinfeld episode?], the penis protruding about an
inch further down than the testicles. A little tumescence is
nice too."
Unfortunately that can only describe a man who hasn't had a
recent dip, whose been lying in the sun letting things
"bake," and isn't eighty-eight years old. Usually what
you see on the men on most nudist beaches is a little knobby
thing being offered to the world above a hard nut sack that's
halfway receded into their pelvic area, to put it crudely.
"Oh, we know about shrinkage." Thank God.
And the drum roll question is alway this: cut or uncut?
It swings to cut among American women. European women don't
seem to understand the question.
Women were asked to judge from a broad selection of photos
representing various sizes and shapes of both man and penis and
pick the one they found with the highest factor. The winner is
below.
Vastly apparent is the youth of the subject, the apparent symmetry
mentioned above, the trim physique. Not making even the short
list were any men with just slight paunches (sorry), but
otherwise not much mattered. Notably, none of the muscle builder
types were considered very attracted (and all seemed to suffer
from very minor packaging).
Muscle tone is desirable, especially in the arms and
upper chest. Of course droopy buttocks, well, no one wants to
see that. (Fifteen weighted squats twice per week takes care of
any problem in that area, regardless of age.)
Lastly, grooming was a big factor. Don't shave, but trim. The
shaved look was summarily dismissed (to the the surprise of some
smooth nudists in attendance) except no one seemed to mind if
the testicles were "bald." Be careful down there. (More)
From: The Tulum Nudist Couples Workshop August, 2011
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